Mrs. Binswanger's self-indulgent and contrived, only moderately funny description of their pregnancy and birth one pulls two comments to tired, despite the rain and cold. The whole of this week was our beloved blog for mothers who do not want to be forced into her mothers role, about a hundred comments. Since I had Max and almost everything, if you consider that we are not professionals and do not have such great fans.
Well, we just put on quality rather than quantity. And now, reach me the following interesting message:
There are a number of scientific publications on the "offender profile" in terms of sexual abuse. Religious affiliation has no effect on the frequency abuse: sexual abuse is found in Catholic, Protestant or non-denominational family is essentially the same extent.
is of great importance for the frequency of sexual abuse but the question of whether the perpetrator is a biological or "social" father. "Among the criminal groups, especially father figures include" (new life partner of parent, step-fathers, etc.), writes Sabine Neumann in her book "Sexual Abuse". In contrast, the proportion of biological fathers is surprisingly low: "The family members are fathers the least involved in sexual abuse: about 2%."
Other studies show one in six girls who had a stepfather, was this before their 14th . Age sexually abused, however, experienced "only" every fiftieth girl sexual assault from the biological father.
especially in the case of the much-touted left-wing blended families, it does look zappenduster terms of abuse. Thus, 32 percent of children in England and Wales, who grew up in at least one stepparent, victims of abuse - and in Finland In 1996, almost four percent of surveyed fifteen-year-old girl to have been abused by the stepfather, while 0.2 percent of their biological Father accused.
A more than embarrassing outcome for all those who fancy themselves to be at the height of the time when "alternative family forms" glorify , now likes to call "patchwork" as: sounds like it yet so loose and creative as a patchwork quilt - in contrast to the normal or "traditional" family with her supposedly entrenched role model "and lack of" flexibility "etc.
" makes divorce children as victims and match balls of the parents, "writes writes the neurologist and psychiatrist Dr. Bertrand Flöttmann in his book "Tax Law of Life." play down the eyes wiper misfortune of relationship crashes. You do not want to admit that a broken family is no family. Separation hurts. An indulgent upbringing, neglect and lead the painful separation of parents to mental disorders in children. These include increased aggression, neurotic poor posture, and reduced social competence "And:".. Divorce often means that a strange man comes into a broken family, the risk of the child, a sexual abuse to suffer by his step father, rises to six -. to seven times compared to the natural father "
Would not it be right now - given the current abuse of debate - high at the time of these clearly documented relationships to reflect and question the blended family finally critical is instead calculated the Catholic church attacked when she was a "hotbed of abuse." It is precisely the cath. Church - holds to the insolubility of marriage and the remarriage of divorcees rejected - quite the contrary to the zeitgeist.
As far honest compared to the usual left-wing scene proves again Germany's best known feminist, Alice Schwarzer - and that was 8 years old! In its magazine "Emma" No.10 / 1992, she wrote in her editorial amazing plain and admitted frankly that facts and background in matters Patchwork they "forced rethinking" to have , also in terms of the much-vaunted "new Father "and" free relations ":
" Today, fewer and fewer married couples - and the majority of all children must expect large parts of their childhood with at least one non-biological, so grow up a social parent, sel tener for adoption and usually after divorce or separation. "
For it is the dream of the benefits of" alternative family forms was "because the dream into a nightmare. One of the "lesson" that Alice Schwarzer - claims to be - could rethink was all too true "parable of the great director with the little girl "or, more precisely the story of the" social "father of Woody Allen, who received a sexual relationship with his adopted daughter, Soon Yi what became known only after many years.
Alice Schwarzer is simply horrified: "Allen sees no moral problem at all - and Soon Yi is shown triumphantly by his side of the press. There is no hesitation, no word of regret, no pity and no shame. How ruthless is the 56-year-old Allen? And how broken is the 20-year-old Soon Yi "
broken soul is also the mother of Soon Yi, Woody Allen with the sham-lived without a marriage - even to Black is expressed skepticism: "Allen and Farrow could afford both morally and materially, to be unmarried and to live in two apartments on either side of Central Park. your way of life had become a model for progressive America. . Their failure must be a warning to all "
At the end of Alice Schwarzer clarifies the issue: " Do mothers from the Allen case to conclude that social fathers are dangerous? In fact, new statistics show: the sexual abuse occurs in foster care-still more frequently than in "blood" families. Sure, both biological and married Fathers lay hands on their children, but they do not triumph, at least in the public eye "
If someone learns something that is always good -. If he even publicly admitting it, even better. Thank you, Alice Schwarzer!
(evidence, sources and links on request)
At the end of Alice Schwarzer clarifies the issue: " Do mothers from the Allen case to conclude that social fathers are dangerous? In fact, new statistics show: the sexual abuse occurs in foster care-still more frequently than in "blood" families. Sure, both biological and married Fathers lay hands on their children, but they do not triumph, at least in the public eye "
If someone learns something that is always good -. If he even publicly admitting it, even better. Thank you, Alice Schwarzer!
(evidence, sources and links on request)
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